I love reading about other poly people, past, present, or future. This
section only covers real people, so we'll have to limit it to the past or
present here.
(Also, be sure to check out the More Polyamory
in Fiction web page for the new version of The Harrad
Experiment. The 1990 edition contains a new, 30-plus page autobiography of
Robert Rimmer.)
Delany tells of his life in
the East Village, the beginnings of his career in
writing, his marriage to the poet Marilyn Hacker,
and dozens of other topics that intertwine with
his life in the 1950s and 1960s.
delany's autobiographical style is direct and
somewhat easier going than much of his more technical
non-fiction (literary criticism and so on). He is
a gifted writer, and here paints a very clear portrait
of a fascinating period of time for him.
I have not read, but am looking forward to reading,
Heavenly Breakfast,
which covers another part of his life.
Bettina Z. Mojo rates this book a
8 (Excellent)
and says:
This was one of the first books I turned to when I realized I
was moving into a polyamorous relationship. The writing is vibrant,
and even though his life and way of living was/is so different from
mine, it helped me approach this new thing as one of many
options. I particularly like that he scattered especially
meaningful or pertinent section from his wife's poetry.
Reading her (Marilyn Hacker's)
Selected Poems,
which
includes "The Navigators", for her perspective on the
life they made together, was also quite illuminating. (And is a
good book in its own right, having won the National
Book Award.)
Three in Love provides provides numerous
biographies of many of the
most famous menages (triads) of the past or present.
The book is extrememly extensive, covering dozens of triads.
While this books examination of only one form of polyfi relationship
may seem a little limiting to many, I personally found something
warm and comforting in the procession of triads.
Because the authors are in a long-term triad themselves,
I find that they bring a different viewpoint to the areas
of history their biographies cover, and that alone makes
this book fascinating reading.
Three in Love is available both at
Amazon and at the publisher
iUniverse.
The authors also maintain a website you'll want to check
out at www.threeinlove.com.
H. S. McCoy rates this book a
6 (Good)
and says:
Three In Love is a worthwhile book only because of its
historical overviews; any disclosure about the real-life
triad of its authors will be disappointing to most readers.
As supplemental reading, however, an insight into these author's
personal lives can be read for free in
Nerve Magazine
under the
essay section.
Featuring histories delivered in essay
format from the individual viewpoints of all three authors, this
presentation is possibly more insightful--and definitely less time
consuming--than their book.
Melissa rates this book a
8 (Excellent) and says:
This book was a gift from a friend showing her support of my lifestyle and I must say
that it is a long read but, I enjoyed it. I found the authors' relationship to be quite helpful
in many respects in dealing with my own situation. A history it is but what else is history for
but to learn from the past.