"Miss Manners?", I hear you ask. Yes, Miss
Manners. I've listed this book because of a small section in
this book which deals with the current trend for all relationships
to be assumed exclusive, a trend that suggests that there is something
immoral or immodest about "dating".
Miss Manners appears to differ:
"...the common pattern is to have a series of exclusive
arrangements.... The standard is, in other words, a rather
dreary form of serial monogamy, followed by the pain of a
simulated divorce.... Miss Manners believes that such a form
is both unsuitably restrictive and unnecessarily hurtful."
More wise words from the Mistress of Manners. Good stuff.